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posted : Sunday, December 6, 2009
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Here are some interesting things i saw from a poster...
On maintaing healthy relationships between couples... More like, husband and wifes... 1. Never both be angry at the same time. I think it is very true.... anger doesnt solve anything, instead it just make things worse.. moreover, 2 person angry tgt, that's worse! but in reality, it is really difficult but still it is important to maintain your cool, i guess.... 2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire. Interesting :) Yelling just make the arguments more fierce 3. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly. LOL, can we do that? 4. Neglect the whole world rather than each other. If it's your life partner, i suppose..... 5. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. Damn true, it sucks anyway to go to bed being mad about each other! The next day, either you don't talk about it anymore, or you just left it hanging there and the problem will still exsist 6. At least once every day, try to say one kind complimentary thing to your life's partner. I think "I Love You" or "I Miss You" is nice enough to be heard.... 7. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness. YES!!! It is a must..... Don't try to turn the table and make everything goes upside down! Never push the responsibility and blame... And never bring in other issues to the current one that you are dealing with.... 8. It takes 2 to make a quarrel and 1 in the wrong is the 1 who does the most talking. Haha funny... but the first half of the sentence is true 9. Happy couples feel at home with each other from the start. 10. Happy couples share routine and dreams. 11. Don't hold a grudge. Yea, if not you will keep blaming the person i think..... 12. Learn to change. Change if you must, and change if you need.. You can't let everybody in the whole wide world to cater to you and you alone.. Changes are everywhere, anytime... 13. Do not struggle for upper hand. Yea.... Stop power struggle lah! 14. Never bring up mistakes of the past. This is soo soo difficult!! But we must all really try to rmb this pt... Because bringing up past issues only add to the quarrel becoming more fierce... |
Michelle Phua
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