it just suddenly comes to my mind...

Communication plays important role in every and any relationship
unless u dun want to have anything to do with this person, then save yr breath..
but i feel that, talking is just talking..
what's most important, is still honesty and truthfullness...
u can talk
but u can lie
and when u lie
it just means u didnt talk in the first place
so what is the point?

trust is important, but self assurance is impt too...
but in this world today,
it just make everythings complicated
it makes words harder to listen to
it makes decision making harder
it makes choices differ vastly
it makes you hard to go back..

say only what you mean to say...
saying things that have no meaning
or are hurtful but u didn''t mean it in the first place
it just damages yr rltship...
even if the other party knows that they didnt mean it
the damage is done
the hurt in inflicted
it is harder to sew up a wound then to cut it open

u need more than A step to mend a hole
But it only takes you just a simple poke or thrust to open it up.....

we always say things we dun mean when we are in a lousy or bad mood
when u are in a bad mood, u will always think "I am not wrong"
sad to say, everyone does that
but the truth is, we are wrong...
becos that's y we feel even more angry abt it
esp when being told off by others